Lucas Progress Report meeting

Below is an email I wrote Leonora, an education specialist at Plaza Vista. Her responses are in bold.

Hi Leonora,

Thank you for your message. I have a few questions and concerns detailed below:

Can you explain the purpose of this meeting and what will be discussed? I see that it is marked a “Plan Review” meeting, but I’m not sure what that entails.

-A student with an IEP has at least one plan review during the school year. The purpose of the plan review meeting is to update the parents on the student’s current levels of performance on his IEP goals and overall functioning in academics, communication, social/behavioral, motor, vocational and physical areas. We discuss strengths and challenges, and propose new goals and services from data and observations collected by the team.

One of my concerns is that his Tri2 Progress Report was completed in early March, yet this meeting won’t take place until two months later in early May. So any data we discuss will be outdated, and therefore Lance and I will come to the meeting unprepared and not knowing if or how Lucas has progressed in those two months. This will make it difficult for us to contribute to a productive discussion.

-Please don’t worry. We continuously collect data and present to you the most updated information at the plan review meeting. We ask for your  input (your observations of growth and areas of  concerns most importantly) through the parent survey that I sent you so that we can take them into consideration when we propose a new set of goals, accommodations and services. We send you the final progress report, the draft present levels and the draft goals ideally at least a few days or a couple of days before the meeting  so that you may review them before the meeting and ask questions, clarifications or express concerns about the proposed IEP. You are a part of the IEP team, and we highly value your involvement and participation.

Will Lucas’ Tri3 Progress Report have been completed and shared with us before this meeting? If not, when can we anticipate it being sent to us? And if not, what is the rationale for having this meeting in early May instead of sooner (to discuss Tri2 Progress Report) or later (to discuss Tri3 Progress Report)?

-Yes, please see my answer above. Lucas’s IEP was initiated on 5/18/2023; we normally schedule the annual plan review meeting close to the IEP date. We give students enough time to meet their annual goals. After our meeting on May 7th, 2024, the next plan review will be around one or two weeks before May 7, 2025. Please note that we can meet anytime of the year per your request.

Another concern of mine is that Lucas was invited to attend IUSD’s Learning Recovery Academy (Summer School). This was a surprise to me, and worries me about his future in First Grade. I’m not sure what the metric is to elicit an invitation, but I assume it has to do with his most recent report card that shows he has only “beginning” and “developing” skills across all disciplines. This is concerning to me — making me think he needs even more help and possibly new goals added to his IEP. This ties back into my initial question of asking what the purpose of this May meeting will be and if it is to just review the current goals or to add new ones or something otherwise.

-The Learning Recovery Academy (Summer School) invites students whose scores in the Literacy Performance Assessments (Alphabet Recognition, Phonemic Awareness, Phonics Inventory) fall in the 25th percentile. Yes, Lucas is demonstrating beginning and developing skills in the areas indicated in the report card, and the summer school is a great opportunity for him to strengthen those beginning and developing skills to prepare him for first grade. In the Learning Recovery Academy, students receive intervention on the essential grade level standards. It will be beneficial for Lucas as he transitions to first grade. Lucas will not work on his IEP goals if he attends the LRA Summer School. You have the option to accept or decline the invitation.

I appreciate any clarity you can offer.

Lastly, no matter the date of the meeting, we’d like to request it be at 2:30 pm or later as to give us time to pick up our 2nd grader after school and take all of the kids to a babysitter.

-I will inform the team of the adjusted time.

Thank you and I look forward to your response.

I hope that I was able to answer all your questions. Please feel free to reach out for other questions or concerns. Thank you very much and have a good evening!

Sincerely,

Leonora

Christmas Card 2022

Wishing You a Merry Christmas

FROM THE STEVENS

——– ❤️ ——–

Dear Family and Friends,

We hope you’ve had a good year! We knew 2022 might be our last in London, so we were determined to live it to the fullest and check a few more places off our bucket list. Sorry not sorry that our family recap this year is mostly a travel log. 

In February we had a great time at DisneyWorld with Lance’s parents during our annual visit to America. In April we adventured in Athens, explored hilltop monasteries in Meteora Greece, and rode bikes through flower fields during the Tulip Festival in the Netherlands — an experience that exceeded our expectations. In May we hosted friends from California and then spent 10 days in Southern Italy sightseeing and wondering why we have so many kids and why we thought it’d be fun to travel so much with them 🙃

In June Keri and her sister Mandi took a dream girls’ trip to Santorini, Greece. She’s already planning a trip back with Lance because aaaa-mazing. In July we showed off our city to Keri’s sister Lisa and niece Brittany (her third time visiting!) and then they babysat so Lance and Keri could spend a week in Switzerland summiting mountains, exploring glacier ice caves and eating all the fondue. As expected, the whole country was incredibly gorgeous. We also didn’t die while traversing a mountain face while on the Murren via ferrata, which in hindsight feels like a big win. 

In August Lance and a few friends snuck away for an epic long weekend mountain biking in Andorra where he enjoyed the excellent trails and ate the local fare (snails). The geography combined with the fact that the country has one of the lowest tax rates in Europe contributes to him thinking we should move there next. A few days after he returned we wrapped up our European adventure with one last family trip. We spent a week in Slovenia hiking, swimming, canoeing and kayaking through the country’s spectacular scenery.

That trip brought our total to 31 international trips taken to 21 countries in the 35 months we lived in England! Pretty crazy, especially considering the limitations we faced during the pandemic. When we weren’t traveling, we saw 19 West End shows (some multiple times) and spent our weekends visiting London’s amazing museums and parks via our beloved borrowed bucket bike. It was a pretty great life (that included plenty of monotony not included here). But Lance’s work contract was up and in September, two days before the Queen died, we landed back in the USA. 

We’re currently camping in our California rental home — our belongings still haven’t arrived from England. But life is still good. Lance continues to work for Gallup and is happy to be reunited with his mountain biking and surfing buddies. The kids are kids and have awesome lives no matter where they live. Lila is in first grade and the boys are home constantly creating chaos. Keri is enjoying spin, paddle boarding, MOPS and being closer to family and friends. And we’re all overjoyed to be among the lucky few to score Disneyland annual passes after waiting 6 hours in a virtual queue (they sold out in 30 hours). While we love the beach, warm weather and our full-size American washer and dryer, it’s hard not to pine over the life we had in London. Maybe we’ll just have to return to it in a few years. I guess we’ll see what life brings! 

❤️Lance, Keri, Lila, Lucas and Wesley 

Christmas Card 2020

Dear Family and Friends,

What do I even say about 2020 … What a year, right?

It started off with us finding out I was pregnant on New Year’s Day. We were excited, but also a little freaked out. We had just moved to a foreign country. Life was a little crazy at the moment. And little did we know that the world was on the cusp of a global pandemic. 

That’s pretty much how I’d summarize 2020: seesawing from one extreme to the other. Lots of tears and fears mixed with uncertainty, anxiety, anger, isolation and boredom — AND lots of joy, excitement, love, adventure, friendship, laughter and peace. 

We had income loss, visits from family and friends cancelled, unmet expectations, and lonely months in government-mandated lockdown. We mourned the death of a dear friend. We watched from far away as parts of our home country burned because of racism.

But we also bonded like never before as our family of five spent hours upon hours together in a 900 square foot flat. Our home became a workplace, a school, a church, a playground, a yoga studio, a refuge. We held Easter egg races in our garden and went Trick-or-Treating door-to-door in our flat. We watched A LOT of movies and ate maybe too much Ben & Jerry’s.

When possible, we explored London and its varied neighborhoods, museums, canals and parks. Lance picked up city mountain biking and the kids mastered their scooters. We took day trips to the English countryside and then the coast, visiting castle after castle. We snuck in trips to Disneyland Paris, Scotland and Turkey. And we sadly sent our firstborn off to school (and she can feign a cute British accent because of it).

In August we welcomed Wesley C Stevens into our family. We’re not actually sure he’s ours, since neither of us were present for his birth. (Lance wasn’t allowed in the room and I was under anesthesia.) But he’s great so for now we’ll assume he’s ours.

See what I mean? A weird but wonderful year.

I love the analogy that we’re all in the same storm, but not in the same boat. Circumstances make this year look different for all of us. No matter if you’ve weathered the worst year of your life or happen to be unexpectedly benefiting from “The Year of the ‘Rona,” we wish the very best for you and your family. If you’re getting this card, we see you, we miss you, we love you. 

God bless 2021!!

Scotland Road Trip

*Written late November*

In so many ways, our Scotland road trip was the road trip of my dreams.

I’m not someone who usually enjoys road trips. In theory, I’m all about them. In reality, I usually complain about an hour in. My butt hurts. I need to pee. The kids are loud and crying and won’t let me talk to Lance. (I love talking to Lance in the car. He can’t get away.)

Also, driving feels like such an ineffective use of time! I’m always willing to spend more money (on a flight) if it means we’ll have more time in a location vs. saving money and losing time at our destination.

Anyway, I digress. The point is I don’t usually enjoy road trips. But I did this one.

We planned this trip on no sleep in between many long hours of me working (editing for ClearVoice), managing logistics (passport appointments, doctor visits etc), and surviving with a newborn + 2. Lance was there to research and offer feedback, but I’m the one who plans our itineraries, picks our accommodations etc so the bulk of the responsibility fell on my shoulders.

It was so last minute (one week before — and over a holiday weekend!) I’m surprised we even pulled it off. When booking our accommodation on the Isle of Skye, there were literally two options within our price range (and they were in the same complex, so I was worried that they were literally the bottom of the barrel).

And yet it all worked out. Here’s the itinerary and what I remember:

  • Aug. 23/Day 1. Drive 3 hours – Arrive in (Peak District)
  • Aug. 24/Day 2. Drive 4 hours – Arrive in Edinburgh – Walk Royal Mile and eat in Old Towne
  • Aug. 25/Day 3. Tour Edinburgh Castle and scale Calton Hill (Edinburgh)
  • Aug. 26/Day 4. Drive 3 hours – Visit Loch Lomond en route to Glencoe (Fort Williams)
  • Aug. 27/Day 5. Explore Glencoe Valley (Fort Williams)
  • Aug. 28/Day 6. Drive 3 hours – Enjoy scenic stopover at Glenfinnan Viaduct en route to Portree
  • Aug. 29/Day 7. Isle of Skye (Portree)
  • Aug. 30/Day 8. Isle of Skye (Portree)
  • Aug. 31/Day 9. Drive 7.5 hours – break in Glasgow – Lake District (Buttermere)
  • Sept. 1/Day 10. Hike Catbells, visit Surprise View & Ashness Bridge – Drive 1 hour Ambleside
  • Sept. 2/Day 11. Visit Stock Ghyll Waterfall and Rydal Cave then drive 4.5 hours home

Peak District: 

The Peak District was beautiful. I worked it into the itinerary as a way to break up the long drive to Edinburgh, and I’m so glad I did. We found parking near a scenic area we wanted to visit and literally stayed in the car for an hour+ afterward as I fed Wesley, changed his blowout(s), waited out the pouring rain, got everyone dressed in their rain gear, and then sorted out payment for parking (a man gave us money when he saw how pathetic we were with 3 young kids and no coins, ha!).

By the time we made it to Cave Dale (a 10 minute walk from the parking lot) it of course stopped raining. Good thing we had all our rain gear on! *(sarcasm, obviously)*

We walked through a valley that was green and rocky with a view of castle ruins above (Peveril Castle). There were sheep and not too many people — it was very idyllic. The kids were happy to be out exploring, and Lance and I were happy to be out of the car. I wore Wesley (yes 2 weeks after a C-section) so we didn’t make it too far before tiring out and needing to turn back. But it was lovely.

Next we drove to Bamford Edge, a landmark with sweeping views of fields of green and purple below us. Lila and Lucas were excellent little hikers on this trail as we enjoyed the sunset. I remember thinking then, and multiple times throughout the trip, that I wished I wasn’t 2 weeks postpartum so I could hike and have more energy to truly experience these trails (instead of walk and then turn back). Also so I could fit into normal clothes! (My warm clothes didn’t fit so I had a weird mix of layers, mostly Lance’s.)

That night we stayed at a very traditional inn (Innkeeper’s Collection) in the middle of nowhere. It was literally the only building around. We ate dinner at the inn’s pub (Sunday roast!) and felt so British. Then we walked upstairs to our room. It smelled like a grandma’s musty old house, but was cute with beautiful exposed wood beams and modern furniture. Unfortunately though the beds were THE HARDEST we’ve ever encountered, and we slept on a board in China for a year! I can’t adequately explain how terrible this bed was other than to say Lila cried because it was so uncomfortable and the whole experience was notable enough for me to write about, ha. Throw in a newborn who ate every 1-2 hours and I’ll call that the worst night ever. It really had us a bit scared for the next 10 nights on the road ..

Edinburgh:

Because of Covid the inn didn’t have an in-person morning meal but instead sent us on the road with sack breakfasts. Inside we found cans of water, two pears and a muffin. So obviously when we got into the next biggest town we stopped for a McDonald’s breakfast.

At this point we’d been on the trip for exactly two days and Wesley was already almost out of clothes. The boy loves his car seat and slept like a champ, but also pooped like one! He had a blowout almost every time we changed him. So Lance dropped me at Sainsbury’s to get some baby clothes while he and the kids went through the drive-through.

Long tangent: Something I really miss about America is the experience and ease of shopping in person. I rarely go into a store (besides the Tesco across the street). I do most of my shopping online, and while that can be convenient, it also sucks. I miss going into Target and tangibly picking up items before choosing to buy them! I could theoretically do this in London, if I wanted to walk a few miles to Oxford Street (and if lockdown hadn’t have closed all of the department stores!). But even if the stores were open, I’m never alone. I have 3 kids and live in a foreign country during a pandemic. Shopping in solace is impossible.

Does that make sense now why this Sainsbury trip was so amazing?

I thorough enjoyed picking out new clothes for Wesley (the first I bought for him since he has all of Lucas’s hand-me-downs). I chose a cute brown bear onesie and several covered in dinosaurs. Again, might seem silly to write about, but it was a notable experience for me.

Anyway, back to Edinburgh. We arrived in the city an hour or two before dusk. As we entered the old town I literally had one of those jaw-drop experiences from the movies as I stared out the window in excitement.

Wikipedia does a better job at describing the scenery than me: “Edinburgh is Scotland’s compact, hilly capital. It has a medieval Old Town and elegant Georgian New Town with gardens and neoclassical buildings. Looming over the city is Edinburgh Castle, home to Scotland’s crown jewels and the Stone of Destiny, used in the coronation of Scottish rulers. Arthur’s Seat is an imposing peak in Holyrood Park with sweeping views, and Calton Hill is topped with monuments and memorials.”

From now on when someone asks me for UK recommendations, I’ll say Edinburgh for sure. London is a great city in many ways, but the medieval, Harry Potter-esque beauty of Edinburgh wins hands down!

We checked into our hotel (Hilton Edinburgh Carlton) which was right in the center of Old Town. It did not disappoint. Because of Covid we got such a deal and only paid 248 pound total for three nights! Then we wandered around the Royal Mile, saw the castle and even saw a short, colorful airshow by some fighter jets!

I had big plans for Edinburgh but they were foiled. Starting the next morning, it rained the whole time we were there, and I was just. so. tired. I had overdone it at the Peak District and my incision was hurting. That combined with the weather meant I spent much of our time there in bed snuggling Wesley. Lance ventured out with the older two a few times and they had fun. And the five of us walked around some gardens and to Mums Great Comfort Food (a tiny hole-in-the-wall diner) twice because it was so good. (I want to eat there right now.) But mostly we hunkered down and promised “next time” to all of the sights we had wanted to see (Arthur’s Seat, Calton Hill, Edinburgh Castle, Dean Village).

West Scotland

Our drive from Edinburgh to Glencoe might’ve been the best day (scenery wise) of the trip. We stopped in Loch Lomond for an hour or two and as the kids played at a playground beside the loch, I could not get over the surreal feeling of WE’RE HERE! We’re in Scotland, at a loch, and it’s more beautiful than I could’ve hoped!

I thought the beauty and serenity of the loch would be the pinnacle, but as we drove to and through the valley of Glencoe, the views kept getting better and better. This route is meant to be a road trip. It converted me to the joy of sitting in a car and staring out the window.

We stayed at a super cute AirBNB in Fort Williams near Glencoe. It was probably my favourite accommodation of the trip (despite our food options being limited because we were in the boonies!). It was a two bedroom cottage (grandmother suite) right next to the main house. There was a washing machine and a fireplace, and bunk bed for the kids. The host left us a welcome basket (“hamper”) with fresh butter and bread, milk, cereal, juice etc. All around lovely. But the best part was the simple view of the field across the street. Long after the kids were asleep, Lance and I sat on the couch, warmed by the fire, watching the sheep and horses roam. It was perfect.

On day two we drove back up the canyon to see the valley in different weather. We stopped at a side-of-the-road waterfall and mused about how the weather could change so quickly. (The day before had been so sunny; the day after so stormy.)

As we made our way to the Isle of Skye, we stopped off to see Glenfinnan Viaduct Viewpoint — an observation point on a trail overlooking a sweeping steam railway viaduct with a highland backdrop, which was a big bucket list item for me. A short scene from Harry Potter was filmed here (Hogwart’s Express travels on this route!) and I’d always wanted to see it in person! The views of the loch below were also stunning, and we lucked out with beautiful sunny weather for the 45 minutes or so we were there!

Isle of Skye

UK ‘Staycations’ have been a major thing this year because of Covid. Maybe I’m projecting, but I’d say many American expats in our position spend much of their vacation time in Europe — not the UK. I’m not sure what it is. It’s like how we lived in Arizona but never visited the Grand Canyon, though it attracts 6 million visitors a year. There’s something about having access to something that makes it less appealing, I guess?

Anywho, because we were forced to stay local, lots of people were asking about Scotland and Wales in the travel forum I’m a part of (a WhatsAPP group of people within the Hyde Park Stake). And every time someone asked about Scotland, people raved about the Isle of Skye. My friend Skye told me it was AMAZING and the most beautiful place she’d ever been, yada yada. So we knew we had to go.

Well, turns out that kind of review made us set some unrealistic expectations. Ha. Overall, the Isle of Skye was .. meh, fine. We really enjoyed looking for dinosaur tracks at An Corran Beach (it took us two days and lots of Internet searches to find them!) and meandering around The Fairy Glen (which was much more mystical than we expected). But after our road trip through Glencoe, the scenery out the window was subpar. And most beautiful place in the world? No, didn’t even broach my top 10. (Note to self, I should make a top 10 list.)

Anyway, that’s really all of my musings from the Isle of Skye. Our accommodation was surprisingly decent. It had these super huge and ugly leather couches that fully reclined — which was amazing. With perfectly positioned pillows, I could easily feed Wesley and rest comfortably to take pressure off of my incision. I slept on them all three nights!

Lake District

Finally, the Lake District. Awwwe. Now this is a place that deserves praise (and possibly a place on “the list”!). I’d return there in a heartbeat, and hope we stay in England long enough to do so. This area of England was just so .. English. I grew up in the country, but not one like this. Green EVERYWHERE. Rolling hills. Trees. Lakes EVERYWHERE. It felt whimsical and like we were stepping into a painting. I wonder how much better my mental health would be if every couple of weeks we could unplug and go out to the countryside.

I had researched and desperately hoped to hike Catbells, one of the notable hikes in the area. But alas, my incision just wasn’t as healed as I’d hoped it to be. And hello, we have three little kids. The season of hiking uphill for 6 miles has probably passed for now.

So instead we found a beautiful road that led us up to several stopovers with scenic views. “Surprise View” was my favorite with views of lakes and Catbells mountain. We also stopped at Rashness Bridge and played.

Buttermere was the perfect, secluded place to stay with literally only 3 or 4 buildings. Our hotel was nestled at the bottom of several mountains and beside a lake. We could’ve walked right out the front door into the beautiful outdoors if we’d had time!

On the way to Ambleside we hiked to a Rydal Cave. Another gloriously beautiful area! God is good!

Our stay in Ambleside was short. It was a cute village and I would’ve loved to wander. We stayed at an inn with a pub below (same brand as the hotel in the Peak District — but a much better bed). My memory from this place is that a group of servers (3 or 4 girls and one guy) saw Lance carrying Wesley and congratulated us. Then the guy looked at me, with my still swollen belly, and said “And another on the way! Congratulation!”

I was SO mad and still am. What the?! Do you know how the human body works? Do you realize that I just had a baby and my body won’t shrink back to normal in 3 weeks time? Also do you know that getting pregnant that soon after having a baby is nearly impossible? AND do you know that even if I did happen to get pregnant 3 weeks after having a baby, I wouldn’t ALREADY be showing?! Idiot.

That’s all. What a wonderful trip!!!

Christmas Card 2019

Happys:

  • Leaving the kids behind and spending our anniversary in San Francisco #9years
  • Moving into our dream (rental) home
  • Reconnecting with our college besties (at Disneyland of course) after nearly 10 years
  • Camping at Carlsbad, Big Sur and with friends at Big Bear
  • Lance adventuring alone with the kids in Sequoia
  • Keri having a kids-free girls weekend with her mom and sisters (yes, at Disneyland)
  • Enjoying book club, girls/guys nights, family days, and couples parties with our BFFs
  • Vacationing in Hawaii (well Lance was working but Keri and the kids were having fun!)
  • Lance’s work moving us to London*

Crappys:

  • Losing Tom Henry (an Irish man Lance baptized on his mission) in a fatal car crash
  • Parting ways on not-so-good terms with our apartment complex after discovering the place wasn’t up to code
  • Experiencing fear like never before (will it ever end??) when the whole family got lice**
  • Struggling through 6 months of testing, doctor appointments, hospital visits after Lucas was diagnosed with failure to thrive and global hypotonia
  • Feeling like God and others abandoned and betrayed us; working through fear, doubt and anger during Lucas’s health issues***
  • Leaving friends, family and all things familiar when we moved to London

Footnotes:
*We’re on a 2 to 5 year assignment in London with Gallup. We’re excited to experience city living, travel throughout Europe, and have a “once in a lifetime” adventure. We’re not excited about the weather, British school system or distance from our kids’ grandparents. We’d love visitors!
**We don’t have lice anymore and no I won’t tell you when we did so you can check the dates to see if you gave it to or got it from us.
***I can’t say we got through the struggle and now see all of the hidden blessings etc etc that come from trial. It sucked and some days I’m still bitter. But I can say that I believe in a God who understands the journey — who knows who we can become but loves us as we are. We hope this season you’ll feel that love, understanding and acceptance too.

Happy Christmas! 2019 | Love, Lance, Keri, Lila (4) & Lucas (2)

Thoughts on General Conference

I love General Conference! Having only been the prophet for three months, President Nelson sure came out swinging. He announced that the Elders Quorums and High Priests Groups will now be combined into a single, unified quorum. He also announced that Home and Visiting Teaching will be replaced by a coordinated effort called Ministering, which will welcome the contribution of young women.

I’m excited about the changes to Visiting Teaching. When talking about it with friends, one described it as giving us the higher law. Essentially nothing has changed other than the language of “home” teaching and the accountability of “what counts.” I think this change will encourage us to have more natural, flexible relationships with those we are invited to look out for. For months I’ve felt like I want and need to be a better visiting teacher, but don’t know how. Looking back, I used to serve my sisters diligently (and monthly!) while we lived in Phoenix. But ever since then I’ve struggled to even contact my sisters more than once or twice a year. What’s changed? I’ve done a lot of reflecting and “repenting,” and am excited that this new change will be a fresh start.

Also, President Nelson announced temples in India and Russia! Russia?! I don’t think the Church is even allowed to proselyte there right now, so what an announcement of hope for the Russian members! God lives! I’m so grateful for his prophets and knowledge of His love and plan for me!

Disneyland Tips

Lance’s cousin Nicole emailed us asking for Disneyland tips. I put together this guide, and am sure I’ll have things to add to it as the years go on 🙂

Tickets:
Buy them online and/or on your phone through the Disney app. This way you’ll avoid the ticket lines and you’ll get a Magic Morning (if you buy a 3-day pass).
Unless you’ll only be there one day, I wouldn’t suggest getting park hoppers. Actually, even if you only plan to go one day, I wouldn’t suggest it. There is so much to see and do in both parks and it takes too much time and energy to go back and forth between them. It’s way more fun and efficient to tackle one park per day.
Parking:
If you can’t park in Pumba (it’s the best but it’s sometimes closed) park in Toy Story. Avoid Mickey and Friends. Though it’s closer to the park, the lines are craaazy.
*Arrival: 
Do whatever it takes to make it to rope drop every day. (That means parking, going through security and entering the park at least 30 minutes before the park is open. You’ll have access to Main Street but entrance to everything else will be roped off. Right at park opening, cast members will drop the ropes and you’ll be able to walk/run to the land of your choosing.)
It’s SO worth waking up early to be able to wait 5 minutes or less for almost every ride in the park! We always run to Peter Pan — it’s the only way we’ve gotten on without waiting 40-50 minutes.
Avoid going to the park on Magic Morning days if you don’t have a Magic Morning. Magic Mornings at Disneyland are Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays. Magic Mornings at California Adventure are on Sundays, Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays.
Restaurants:
We generally pack a lunch, so we don’t have a ton of suggestions. Nothing we’ve had is that good … other than the treats! The churros are amazing, and we love Dole Whips (only available in Adventureland).
Most restaurants offer free ice water (even if you don’t buy anything) so don’t worry about packing tons of water bottles.
Download the app:
It’s great for checking wait times, show times, fast pass distribution times, park hours and finding bathrooms, restaurant menus, characters etc.
With the app, you can choose to pay $10 extra per person to get the Disney MAX PASS, which has extra perks like getting fast passes from your phone. The MAX PASS also includes photos taken by photographers throughout the park. Only one person needs to get the MAX PASS for this benefit.
A few helpful links:
*One last thing:
The arrival section is my No. 1 tip. Most people get to the park entrance two hours after it opens — which makes the parking lots and security lines a zoo starting at about 30 minutes after park opening. Then they stay til closing to “get their money’s worth.” Buuut by evening the park is crowded and everyone is exhausted. Why not make it to rope drop and practically have the park to yourself? You’ll check off so many rides in the morning that by evening when it’s crowded if you want/need to leave early, you can!

January Wrap-up

What a month! I look back at our photos and can’t believe how much we’ve done. It feels like a blur. It’s crazy to me how at night I wake up every 2-3 hours and feel the weight of my exhaustion, but that during the day I can walk and talk like my life isn’t in shambles. Ha. That’s a blessing for sure, but how long will it last?

While Lance was on paternity leave we drove to LA to visit Griffith Park and the LA Zoo. We started at the zoo, and then didn’t make it past the park’s parking lot. We were all so tired and Lila had fallen asleep on the five minute drive between the two. Someday we’ll go back and explore — it feels like a different world over there (Orange County vs LA County).

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Lucas had several baths and I went picture crazy and took 50 photos (not kidding). Here are a few to document how small he was and how quickly he changes!

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Surprising to some, Lila and I have made it to library story time, Music Makers and MOPS almost every week since we’ve been home. I find satisfaction (and sanity) in routine, and enjoy a scheduled reason to get up, get ready and get out of the house. In some ways, having two kids isn’t all that much harder than having one. For the most part, Lucas just comes along for the ride and hangs out sleeping in his car seat most of the time. (Amazing.) It isn’t until the afternoon (when he cries and cries no matter what and Lila rarely naps) that having two kids is rough. Still, look at how sweet they are! I’m grateful they’re mine.

In late January we left the kids with a babysitter (Chris and Amanda Taulbee) so we could go to Lance’s company party for 3-4 hours. It was a casino-themed night. We still had several ready-to-go infant formula bottles from the hospital, so that was convenient. Amanda was my primary co-teacher before they moved to another area of Irvine. Though the party wasn’t super fun, it was super nice to get some alone adult time with Lance. We joked afterward though that it wasn’t worth $60 (how much we paid the sitters) to go to his work party — we should’ve gone somewhere else!

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